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Embrace Self Love This Valentine’s Day!

If you have the ability to love, love yourself first.
-Charles Bukowski

This valentine’s day, how about we do something different and work on finding out what the definition of love for us is! We spend days and nights planning the perfect day for our significant other, the perfect restaurant, the perfect outfit, and the perfect gift. Let us take this opportunity to invest some time in ourselves and make the night perfect for us. Think about our perception of ourselves, our likes, and dislikes, whether we appreciate ourselves enough, and are we devoted enough to ourselves. 😉

If you feel like you haven’t got enough of yourself, it’s time to turn up the heat in the relationship which will last till the end of time – yes, the one with yourself!

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Here are some ways to practice self-love and pamper yourself this valentine’s day.

Accept Yourself This Valentine’s Day

We all have a few qualities that we are not willing to accept. Write a few affirmations that revolve around the qualities that you might dislike about yourself. Affirmations are small positive statements and you can write these for yourself and read them every day to instill within you a sense of self-acceptance.

Be kind to yourself, talk to yourself as you would to anyone else who might be upset. Self-compassion is the road that will lead to self-acceptance! 

Set Up Boundaries This Valentine’s Day

If you find yourself giving into plans of others and constantly picking up calls even though you might not want to, it is time for you to prioritize yourself and set some healthy boundaries. It Is okay to say no to others’ plans or want some time just for yourself. Just as your body needs rest to recharge, so does your mind. Taking time out for yourself and doing something you enjoy will not only improve your physical health but also your mental health. 

Take Yourself Out On A Date This Valentine’s Day

It feels nice to pamper yourself every once in a while. This valentine’s day, take yourself out on a date, order your favourite food, watch a movie, or book a relaxing spa for yourself. Spend the entire day by yourself, listen to what your mind or body is craving, pay attention to yourself and do exactly what you need to, to put yourself in a good mental space. Once relaxed and recharged, plan ahead to take occasional breaks from the monotonous routine of your life and treat yourself to a ‘me day’!

Do Something New This Valentine’s Day

Remember that hobby you have been meaning to pick up for the longest time? Do it, pick it up, don’t overthink it, Go For IT! Be it reading, writing, dancing, or even stand-up comedy… Put on your favourite song and write the jokes you have at the back of your mind. Experiment with innovative ideas, explore new fields and learn that one thing you always wanted to. 

Make A ‘Me’ Corner This Valentine’s Day

Dedicate a space to yourself in your room, with your favourite books, CDs, plants, or flowers. You can also set up a super comfy chair or sofa and every time you feel demotivated or just sad for no apparent reason, sit in your own personalized corner, surrounded by your favourite things, and just take some time to yourself to think or calm down. Make it your ‘my safe space.’ 

Find The Perfect Outlet For Your Emotions 

Try out different methods of channelizing your emotions in a healthy way. Try journaling and writing everything down, or meditation or just explore the world of colours. You can also try some physical activity that might help you clear your mind when the emotions are overwhelming. 

Laugh With Yourself

The ability to have a sense of humour about our own actions, mistakes and quirks is another form of self-acceptance. Laugh those embarrassing moments that you keep remembering off, just like you would with your best friend. If you are feeling insecure about your body, click some nice pictures out in the sun and have a picnic! Or if you feel unproductive, give yourself a break and start over because you are most likely feeling overworked. Instead of being self-deprecating, find a way to shrug off negative feelings with a smile and remind yourself how great you are. 

Indulge in Yourself this Valentine’s Day!

Do something splurge-worthy today. Take a bubble bath. Eat those rich filled chocolates. Put on some makeup and paint your nails with a glittering polish. Look and feel stunning. What better way to spend a romantic evening than ordering in from your favourite restaurant and reading a romantic novel? What better romantic novel than the Mills and Boons edition?

Gift Yourself this Valentine’s Day!

Gift yourself a diamond, a Lily bouquet, or a bouquet of red roses. It will certainly make you happy and make you feel worthwhile. You deserve a lovely gesture because you are a self-reliant and strong woman.

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